tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post5438064310239759722..comments2023-07-18T10:23:20.045+02:00Comments on "Memoirs For Kimya" by Shafinaaz Hassim: Power games, headaches and my theories of reciprocationShafinaaz Hassimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14639184569752140877noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-3366499921790963862008-01-31T23:22:00.000+02:002008-01-31T23:22:00.000+02:00@ waseem: double quote for added emphasis :) yea, ...@ waseem: double quote for added emphasis :) yea, too many examples of that. devoid of logic, hey! mature relationships are built on respect and trust. not endless quarrels and eventual resentment. and so ideally the end product or the journey towards love should be fulfilled with the right intentions and efforts.<BR/><BR/>@OH: maybe its time we stopped looking at it as War. The difference between love and war is endless. <BR/><BR/>@g-d : life is fiction. so we assume we kno. everyone assumes. nobodys wrong. we all live our litle bit of fiction.<BR/><BR/>@JT: ta. your comments provoke thought :)<BR/><BR/>@diatribe: aaah, the caveman defends his kind!<BR/><BR/>@ girl in green:<BR/>colour is all we have. its what makes up the otherwise blank canvas of life. play with it at will and be certain to create a masterpiece :PShafinaaz Hassimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14639184569752140877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-8576539475935473282008-01-31T23:05:00.000+02:002008-01-31T23:05:00.000+02:00Colour therapy for headaches! Thats awesome! I wis...Colour therapy for headaches! Thats awesome! I wish it worked for power in relationship pains too!<BR/><BR/>the-girl-in-greenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-34116381175256625552008-01-31T23:03:00.000+02:002008-01-31T23:03:00.000+02:00In relationships, girls want a guy who knows what ...In relationships, girls want a guy who knows what his doing. So girls go for guys who can play and play well. Not play her. Just play the game well. As in, 'get the girl'!!! Whatever it takes. Lol. That proves his ability to be a good hunter and aids their future survival and the wellbeing of their offspring. Its all that simple. Goes back to basics - Back to the cavemen!<BR/>:-PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-55718673121257704702008-01-31T23:00:00.000+02:002008-01-31T23:00:00.000+02:00Games seem like games. Its all a perception. But i...Games seem like games. Its all a perception. But its just people being themselves. Acting spontaneously and reacting to the other person. And reacting to their own insecurities.<BR/><BR/>Thoughtful post, Kim<BR/><BR/>JTAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-45083151768653200902008-01-30T20:05:00.000+02:002008-01-30T20:05:00.000+02:00I think everyones very very scared of other people...I think everyones very very scared of other people. I think everyones very scared of others because they know what they, personally, are capable of. <BR/><BR/>I think Freud was right and Jung smoked too much pot. We're all screwed up. And we behave that way because we are screwed up, and we have to try to be less screwed up. Because taking the high road implies that we actually know the way?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-72363187330094941922008-01-30T01:24:00.000+02:002008-01-30T01:24:00.000+02:00everyone plays a game, a tactic to control or at l...everyone plays a game, a tactic to control or at least try to control our world. it's a natural attempt to protect ourselves. games are the white T cells we employ to attack invaders and bend them to fit into our realm. makes sense or move along. reciprocity is an aspiration in the evolutionary process for some. i can only imagine what such lofty ideals such as altruism promise. <BR/> <BR/>yes everyone plays a game. even no game is a game. confidence determines our tactics and who decide to trust and gobble up.My dartboardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13603583492413600085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-52216570323164468812008-01-29T11:35:00.000+02:002008-01-29T11:35:00.000+02:00Trying to get rid of the nice guy ... I know that ...Trying to get rid of the nice guy ... I know that story. It's sad really, girls wanna know where all the nice guys have gone, but when they are there, girls don't want them.<BR/><BR/>I don't think there is such a thing as the upper hand in a good relationship. I think good relationships need equality cos that cultivates respect and trust and ultimately love :).<BR/><BR/>Apologies if this comment came twice, blogger gave me an error.Waseemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04875893438527568751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10341436.post-64849723896173038302008-01-29T11:29:00.000+02:002008-01-29T11:29:00.000+02:00Trying to get rid of the really nice guy ... i kno...Trying to get rid of the really nice guy ... i know that story. It is sad really, girls ask where the nice guy is gone but when the nice guys are there, the girl doesn't want them. <BR/><BR/>There shouldn't be such thing as the upper hand in a relationship, i think equality is one of the biggest thing in a good relationship, cos it cultivates respect and trust and ultimately love :).Waseemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04875893438527568751noreply@blogger.com