Beyond Resentment and Judgment

Resentment is the ugly by-product of perceived or imagined expectations which are rarely communicated between people, friends, lovers. Beyond attachment, desire to possess and self-judgment, there's renewed hope for pure joy and love.
Beyond judgment: the judgment of the next person by what you perceive as their incapacity to deliver on your expectations of them/the relationship
Beyond self-judgment: your perceptions of not being worthy of being in the relationship based on how superior you think your partner or friend is...